Time to Refocus our Resources, Time, and Attention
by Amy Lamb
07-10-2010
I just received the sad news today that a friend of ours, who has been living in a homeless shelter for 20 months, was denied disability income from our government after a 2-year ordeal through the court system. This man, our friend, has a diagnosed physical condition that prevents him from holding a job. In addition, because of the sad state of the US Economy, even when he would apply for a job in an attempt to help himself, he is competing against college-educated people who are out of work or who are working second jobs.
In the past 20 months, this man has deteriorated physically to the point where I can barely recognize him any longer. He is sick, skinny, his nails are falling off due to a fungal infection, his hair is falling out, face drawn, he limps around in pain. He sleeps in a homeless shelter in the ghetto of Milwaukee where they are fed food that is nearly spoiled, or past its expiration date. The “residents” are kicked out in the day time, even in the coldest days in winter and the hottest days in summer, forcing them to pass their time in the parks, in the bus stations, in the public library.
Our friend is sick and needs to see a doctor, he is not on the medication he needs and must go without. He has been on a waiting list to see a doctor for the past 3 months and there is no telling when his turn to see the doctor will come. These people cannot get jobs as most are physically disabled or mentally ill. Some are there in the shelter by their own bad decisions in life, that is true. But MOST, like our friend, are medically ill and cannot work.
Our US government doesn’t care. In this country we treat our animals better than our people. An animal in a shelter at least gets medical care and food and isn’t kicked out of the shelter in the extreme cold or heat in the day. What is WRONG with this country????
I learned this hard lesson long ago when I was homeless. I thought “Doesn’t anybody care that I am sleeping in my car, or sleeping in an abandoned shack in the woods?” The answer was no, nobody cared. When my daughter was born, I worked very hard, got my first college degree, but because of lack of career experience, only found a job making about $8 an hour. I basically worked so she could be in day care all day long. Our society is sick. Disgusting. I remember sitting, again, in the shelter, this time with a child and thinking “Doesn’t anybody care that a mother with a baby don’t have a place to live?” The answer again was no, nobody cared.
But I was the lucky one. I am smart, driven, and not encumbered by any mental or physical problems and was able to scratch and claw my way up and out of all of that. I was the lucky one because we were never in a shelter for more than a few weeks at a time. But my friend has been there for 20 months. I assure you it is a terrible place to be. People in the prison system get a better life the homeless do. In fact, that is precisely WHY some crime is committed – they will have a better life being locked up than on the streets.
If our government won’t take care of the least of our brothers and sisters, who will? Individually it is a hard problem to tackle alone. I don’t make enough money to support my friend. I’d go bankrupt and the people I can support on my income and me would all end up in dire straights.
So I ask you, aside from the government, what is the next largest force in this country that could help? Large corporations? But they won’t, as they are too greedy and too busy filling their executive officers’ pockets with more cash than a person really needs to live on, and also on returning profits to the shareholders, because, you know, the shareholders demand their cut of the profits.
So what’s the next largest force after that? Organized religions. There are more churches in this country than we can even count. Here are stats on churches in the US: http://hirr.hartsem.edu/research/fastfacts/fast_facts.html
Based on the statistics by the Hartford Institute for Religion Research there are an estimated 335,000 churches in the US. That’s 6700 churches per state. An astounding figure. People who go to church pay to have these churches in existence. If they never paid when the collection basket came around, the church could not pay it’s mortgage, electricity bill, food for employees, putting on spiritual classes, etc, and would have to close its doors.
What does any church REALLY DO? What does church members’ money go for other than to pay the church’s bills and to indoctrinate members and their children in to the hate consciousness and the ideology that you are not responsible for your actions? Some of them – many of them – champion causes against abortion and gays. Abortion and gays are NOT the cause of the problems in this country. And I say to those organized religions who champion this "cause", it is a fruitless endeavor to try to change people's minds about abortion or to try to make a gay man straight. I challenge the organized religions to do something useful with their recources. We need to wake up and instead focus our energy on the problems that genuinely need tending to. And I promise any true believer that if you hurt people with your words or actions, you will pay for it, and no, Jesus will not come down from heaven and magically absolve you of all your wrong-doings. I recall too much of my time in the spirit world to buy into this man-made theory.
Someone please tell me there is a church out there that actually helps citizens of OUR OWN COUNTRY (and not citizens in far away countries with a hidden agenda to convert and control)?
Someone please tell me there is one church our there without a hate-agenda?
Someone please tell me there is a church out there that does NOT put its energy and resources into being anti-abortion and anti-gays.
Someone please tell me there is a church out there that gives shelter to the homeless, REAL shelter that lasts all day long and feeds them good food and gets medicine and medical care for the least of us.
Someone please tell me that there is a church out there that embodies all these things - that cares not about abortion or gays, holds people accountable for their thoughts, words, and actions, and gives the people who are literally dying on the streets of the United States of America food, shelter, and medical care.
Anyone?
It makes me physically sick that so many churches focus their attention on pointless causes, ignoring that there are REAL problems going on every second. If every church in the US put their energy into helping the homeless men, women, and children who are literally dying in the streets of the United States of America, think what good could come of it? It would be profound good.
If you are a church member, please consider DEMANDING the focus be taken off abortion, gays, converting people in other countries, and DEMAND the focus be placed on helping our own people. We spend so much time and energy caring about what other people think or believe, and how other people live, standing in our own self righteousness and false sense of confidence that Jesus will save the true believers, that we have completely forgotten our true selves and have abandoned all attention to the people in this country who are sick and hurting and in pain because of how they have to live.
This is urgent. It is urgent that all churches shift their focus now.
Just think how uncomfortable you’d be if you were sick and needed medicine and couldn’t get it?
Just think how uncomfortable you’d be if you had to spend all day long in 95 degree weather in a park with no food or water.
Just think how uncomfortable you’d be if you were sick with a fever and in pain and had to spend all day in a bus station sitting up in a chair?
Just think how uncomfortable you’d be if you had to look for mold on your food before you ate it?
Just think how uncomfortable you’d be having to lug all the earthly possessions around all the time, holding them close to you lest they be stolen?
Just think how uncomfortable you’d be if you be if you had to walk outside in the icy cold winter for a mile to get to the library and hope you could hide there all day and not get kicked out, thereby incurring the risk of frostbite?
Just think how uncomfortable you’d be if there was never any joy in your day – no comfort – no good food, no comfortable place to lay down, no medicine if you even so much as get a headache?
Think what good could be done for the homeless if each church gave a mere $1000 per year of the money collected from all of us. $6,700,000 per state each year to help fund better shelters (that are open all day long in any type of weather) better food that’s not spoiled, and medical care and medicines.
Individually I can’t have much of an effect, and neither can you.
But collectively, via the churches, think of the huge amount of good that could be done per state, per city if the focus was shifted?
One of the times I found myself homeless with my daughter, I got desperate for shelter. I was working full-time+, but the cost of daycare ate up most of my paycheck. Daycare, gasoline, and some mac-n-cheese and milk was about all I could afford. There is no sense of shame or embarrassment when you are that desperate. All I had was an old car, my daughter, and all my earthly belongings in the trunk. I went around to many of the churches in my area. You name the denomination, I went there. Catholic, Lutheran, Methodist, no denomination at all (just Christian), evangelical, etc. I knocked on the doors to each, I talked to every priest, minister, church leader, sat in their office, explained my situation, asking for help, offering to clean, cook, do anything in return for a place for my daughter and I to live. And you know what? Every single one of them pointed me to a grocery store shopping cart in the back with canned and boxed goods collected from church members. Like that does a hungry homeless person any good. I had no can opener, and even if I had one I had no stove to cook it on. It's cold and rainy outside, and a car is no place for anyone to live.
Organized religion in this country is pure insanity. It escapes me why church members don’t demand their church leaders turn the attention away from silliness like abortion and gays and focus on the REAL problems in this country.
Stop hating and start loving. Demand that your church changes its focus and does the same.
If you go to church, where does your money go? I know where your money goes. I have seen the financial records of many organized religions, as I once was an accounting software consultant for a CPA firm and helped many churches with their financial statements and records. I KNOW where your money goes. Other than feeding the Mothership and paying the individual bills of the church, it goes into hate-campaigns, converting people in other countries, and into educational courses that teach you and your children to be good people, but if you slip, no worries, Jesus will wipe your slate clean.